POSTPONED:

Getting

selfish:

Live and in-person

NEW DATE TBD | 4-8pm | Orangily, A Wellness Bottleshop

Getting Selfish is a 4-hour in-person workshop meant to help you build a solid foundation for self-advocacy by giving you the tools and time to connect with yourself on a deeper level.

At the end of this engaging, hands-on four hours, you'll walk away with clarity, purpose, skills you can use now, and motivation to bring your life more into alignment with your true self.

Join us at Orangily and enjoy a beautiful space and wide selection of exciting beverage options!

Price: Pay What You Can (value $295)

Registration fee includes:

  • A hands-on experience where you’ll get real work done in real time

  • A companion book with resources for continued use

  • Free admission to Masterclasses for the rest of the year (see below)

  • One free hour of 1:1 coaching

2025 Masterclass Calendar

  • Saying No and Meaning It: A Masterclass

    2.12.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    "If it's not a "hell yes," then it's a "hell no." We've all heard it, and yet we say "yes" to things we don't want to do--or even shouldn't do--all the time. We do it to preserve relationships, to appear helpful to signal that we're team players, to prevent hurt feelings, and just because "no" is a hard word to say.

    In this lunchtime Masterclass, you'll learn, apply and practice a simple yet effective framework for saying "no" to the things that are draining your energy and keeping you from doing your best at your main things. Trust me--this is one hour you'll want to say "yes" to!

  • Learning Yourself: A Guide to Self-Exploration

    3.19.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Getting to know yourself again! This lunchtime Masterclass includes practical tips for rediscovering who you are, what you enjoy, what your strengths and growth opportunities are, and what to do with what you learn.

  • Me, Meet Me

    4.9.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    A guided visualization exercise to put you in touch with a future version of yourself who is living in alignment with their values, meeting and exceeding goals, and finding success.

  • Pressure Testing Your Core Values

    5.14.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    This session is for folks who have done the work to identify their core values and are ready to test, refine and commit to them. We’ll walk through a series of exercises to “prove” them to yourself, with guidance on refining or redefining them as necessary.

  • Forming Clarity and Purpose

    6.18.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    So, you know what you want your future to look like, and you've identified your Core Values. Now what?

    This hour-long lunchtime session will provide guidance to put your vision of the future and your Core Values to work for you. You'll:

    Articulate what a "yes" looks like through the lens of your values

    Identify boundaries meant to help you protect your time, energy, and other personal resources

    Set measurable goals

    Spot the "detours" that will move you away from what you're aiming for

    If turning thought into action is a challenge, this one's for you!

  • Boundaries, Rights, and Responsibilities

    7.16.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Every person has rights, and every person has responsibilities. We’ll walk through the balance of rights and responsibilities, then connect those with different types of boundaries. We’ll also explore the difference between boundaries and requests, and how not to confuse the two.

    At the end of this Masterclass, you’ll have identified one or more of the boundaries that you need to establish or reinforce. You’ll also plan how you’ll do that in your specific context.

  • Putting Yourself Out There

    8.13.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Putting yourself out there is scary, whether you’re asking for a promotion or raise, requesting to be put on a stretch project, articulating your value, or asking for more or different attention from a friend or loved one. We’ll cover practical tips, tricks and advice to stay calm, confident, and self-assured when putting ourselves out there.

  • Negotiation

    9.17.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Whether it’s negotiating a raise at work or negotiating a change of vacation venue with family, understanding how to advocate for your own wants and needs while understanding the other party’s stakes is a skillset that everyone needs.

  • Endings and Exits

    10.15.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Sometimes, things need to end. Relationships, volunteer positions, jobs—we have all gotten to the point where one or more of these things has outlived its time with us. Let’s explore how to identify when “enough is enough” and then build skill in communicating and facilitating the end.

  • Overcoming Impostor Syndrome

    11.12.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Do you ever feel like a stack of kindergarteners in a trench coat pretending to be an adult? If so, this hour is for you. We’ll talk about what impostor syndrome is, why it’s so common, and how to overcome it so that you can confidently live into your strengths.

  • Your Year In Review

    12.10.2025 | 12-1pm | Online

    Ahh, December! Let’s take some time to review the year. We’ll start with gratitude for the things we have learned and gained; we’ll recognize the things that didn’t go our way (but do so with grace and optimism); we’ll identify things that will fill our cups even more in the coming year.

let’s get together!

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